Tuesday, July 08, 2008

New Perspective!

Does this sounds familiar? You work harder than your boss, you seem to know more than your boss, you are more stress than your boss, you have lesser time for other personal things as compared to your boss..... Doesn't sound logical right? I used to think that something was wrong with my boss. Note, the word is used to. Recently, I am beginning to see this whole situation of an "ineffective" boss from a new light. Maybe I appear to work harder because I have placed work as top priority. I know more than my boss because I choose not to let go. I have lesser time for other personal things because I choose to place work first. So, the whole feeling of imbalance and "why am I paid less but have to work more" syndrome is self-inflicted. If I rearrange my priorities and still do my best in office, maybe I can achieve more self satisfaction. Rather than deriving satisfaction from work, shouldn't I derive it from things that are important to me? Late enlightenment :)

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Given your new found enlightenment, maybe you should reconsider Adrian's request :-)

From Mum and Dad said...

Haha....things I like to do does not include Adrian's request

Anonymous said...

oh oh, sorry adrian. We've done our best. Anything more, I think Eng will disown us :-p

Anonymous said...

Well, obviously your boss is the lucky one to have someone like you working for her.. :)

Despite of everything, life in Russia sometimes do challenge one's purpose of living.. Do you agree? ;)

"Taoism" taught us to find strength and purpose from the life we have been given.. I could not agree more only it won't be an easy road to discover.

"jia you!" :)

tracey